I know how you feel I've watched men come and go. I've watched people marry and have kids and well, and well it just never happened for me and I'm older than you.Yes I ask that question all the time, what did I do wrong, why did love pass me by???Your not a loser, but I know what you mean I actually feel that way too. And they are just so insensitive as not to understand that they may be causing you pain. Let me just show you how great my life is or let me tell you about who I'm crushing on, like I care. I'm probably going to spend the night on this site I am in so much pain. I got dumped on Sunday, I am blind with grief but I am proud I know I will never be important to him like that. I'm not clinging and begging, it's over and I know it.