So I am ragingly dismissive avoidant, right? Last week I sent an email to T and referred to the two of us as "we". I made an offhand comment that I had made a specific effort to call the two of us a "we" and that I think the effort was worth a therapy gold star.

Today he met me at the door with stickers. Confused the hell out of me for a second. I now have stars on my therapy journal. Nice to have a T who sees a lot of kids.