I read a lot around here about people wanting to have some kind of relationships with their Ts after they terminate with their Ts. A lot of people want to be friends with their ts.

Am I the only one who only wants the relationship that they have right here and now with their T? I mean.. I don't want to give up client/T relationship. I know, that really my T isn't the put together guy he portrays in his office and he makes sure to remind me of that. BUT-I don't want the flaws that come a long with a relationship outside of the safe place of his office. I don't want to change that dynamic. If I can't have him as my T.. I don't want him at all!!!

Anybody else?