I have no interest in being T's friend or having a relationship with T outside of therapy. I love her as my T and we have a fabulous relationship-- but it's a professional relationship. And that's why it works so well! I feel strongly that the professional boundaries are there for a reason and I really benefit from having the things that only a T can give me-- undivided attention and support that requires nothing of me in return. Why would I want to give that up? I have plenty if friends and, while i love them, they require a lot of me. T is the only person in my life who doesn't need anything from me, and that is something I really value. I don't think it would be healthy for me to have any kind of relationship with T beyond client/therapist-- nor do I want one. I like things just as they are.