Sorry to hear about your circumstances. Personally, I think your SO should speak to his mom/parents and then you should speak with them. Who cares if they know your condition? If they say no, they say no... but aren't you worth at least trying? Wouldn't it be better than where you're at now? And check into women's shelters please. Anything would be better than breathing in fiberglass dust - that could lead to serious problems later and then you'll be wishing you'd checked into other options. Know that you are worth more. You are.