Sorry if I'm posting in the wrong place, but I would like to know if any of you have any good(healthy) coping mechanisms for jealousy. Unfortunately, I'm faced with the green-eyed monster known as envy often, especially lately. The only guy I've ever cared about on an emotional level is more interested in my best friend, so I've just been a festering cesspool of rage, jealousy, and self-hatred.

I really don't want to say or do something that I'll regret: I don't want to lose my best friends or my closeness to the man I adore. Any advice would be extremely appreciated. Thanks for your time.