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but my t really doesn't understand this and believes we bring these issues on to ourselves in some way. I'm a Christian girl, volunteer and spend my wage to charities, I don't know what I've done to deserve this.
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You do not deserve infertility.
I am sorry that T does not understand you and seems to blame you for infertility. You already have a great deal of stress and pain. You need support and understanding from a T, not additional causes of feeling bad.
This is another indication that it is time for a different T--for a T who understands and supports you, rather than misunderstands, and blames you for, the central stressor of your life.