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Old Sep 11, 2013, 09:01 AM
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I actually think that the biggest temptations and urges were with a Group Therapist that I saw a few years back. Unlike during traditional Individual Therapy where the Therapist sits across from me several feet away my, my Group Therapist sat directly across from me at a table (sort of like you would see with younger children since she did primarily work with young children) and during most of the session (particularity when the other person there for the session went into real depressing things that I head no interest in really listening to) I found myself other looking at her bra-strap (which was usually always visible) or even trying to look down her shirt (the shirts that she wore were typically low-cut) even though I know that I shouldn't be doing it I sometimes couldn't resist it. I knew she was married and had 2 young kids so that did help the urges ease a little but they were still there right up until the abrupt ending due to ongoing differences between me and the other person who was there for the Therapy session. It has been close to 2 years now since we ended the Group Therapy but it still stands in my head and comes up from time to time.

Basically these urges are natural especially if you find the Therapist very attractive.
Thanks for this!
Unkas