I don't know much about your situation, but I can say that my therapist is constantly (I'd like to say too much, but I know that she's doing it for my own good) bringing up social and athletic activities that I can do to better my social life. She's suggested meetup groups (in the US), that I get back into a sport that I once played competitively, that I try online dating, mental illness support groups, etc. Sometimes she's even brought newspaper clippings of weekend activities in or researched groups online for me. We work on a lot of other stuff, too (transference included), but she never forgets to encourage me to get out there... It could be an approach thing, but I just wanted to say that such Ts who will help with both types of issues are out there.