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Originally Posted by Littlemeinside
The therapist might just be saying...: Instead of paying me to stay away and you trying to control and interlectualize the situation/relationship, look at me as the " good mother"..." I am not the "bad mother" who hurt you" I am here to help you.
It could be as simple as that 
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I think this is a really valid option. It's quite similar to what I worked on yesterday & I felt like my inner
stopdog was activated most of the time.