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Old Sep 11, 2013, 11:18 AM
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Originally Posted by Littlemeinside View Post
The therapist might just be saying...: Instead of paying me to stay away and you trying to control and interlectualize the situation/relationship, look at me as the " good mother"..." I am not the "bad mother" who hurt you" I am here to help you.

It could be as simple as that
I think this is a really valid option. It's quite similar to what I worked on yesterday & I felt like my inner stopdog was activated most of the time.
Thanks for this!
Littlemeinside