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Originally Posted by Edda
Edda sighs...
I can strongly relate. I find that after performing a doubtlessly kind act or a favour, many "helpers" think themselves somewhat above you and feel they have the right to be nosey, patronizing and frankly, blatantly invading your privacy in rather insensitive ways.
My best guess is that helping you served a need in him; in other words, your worries about the guy being two-faced is probably rather well founded.
Edited to add; I would keep up clear boundaries.
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I completely agree with you with people that are overly helpful. In general it's been pretty consistent (not all but most) that I find those people that seem to act the most helpful use it as a means to meddle and lord it over you, but the sickening part of that is that they do it just short of being overt remaining just under the radar taht would set off alarms at the boundaries of being unacceptable.