I'm in the same boat right now Shrinkpatient. In fact I just emailed T (who has not responded) a request to pay her more (i'm on a sliding scale) because I can't take the guilt anymore. I too have decided to cut out emails and I honestly feel like this is the best effort I can make next to not going anymore.

I do think that you should make your T aware of how you feel - she may just surprise you with her response.