There is no time to accept that, that's when you ask for help, and you keep asking for help until you get what you need to feel better. As painful as things can be, as badly as we can hurt we still can't just accept it. I know, I felt like if I can't make the pain go away what else can I do, but eventually the pain did lessen and was made bearable and I am ok. But I got help, I told my husband, my drs, the worst time I went to the hospital for 2 weeks. I did what I needed to do to be well. Because there was no accepting any alternative. Seek help, call your dr, go to the hospital if you need to. Do what you need to do to be well.