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Originally Posted by allme
I meant significant MI.  Not that milder MI is insignificant...oh you know what I mean lol
I know you said you've tried this before, but why not give online dating another blast? That way you create a profile explaining exactly what it is you want and then everyone is clear from the start?
I personally think you're over-thinking it all and dooming it all before anything has actually begun. I think this geeky gamer girl has triggered feelings in you and you're running away with the whole idea of it all. Don't think too much, just go with it, se what happens. Don't doom things before they're even begun. I can imagine how the prospect of a new romantic relationship could be daunting for you especially with 2 marriages etc but you never know, the next one, could just be the very one!
Give yourself a break, take it easy, enjoy geeky gamer girl, don't over think it  |
Thanks but no. never do online dating. its absolutely out of the question. Too many lame people on there, either desperate to find someone or not serious about it at all. I think the worst part about the online dating thing is that it's so unnatural. I don't want to go to a store and pick out my next girlfriend from a list of available type a,b,c or d's.. why would I do that online? No I'd much rather hang in a place that I enjoy and find someone that happens to be there and is meant to meet me. Which, i do, indeed believe in.
Actually I'm not really bothered by it, although it is something I think about a lot. it's like I can take it or leave it right now. I am analytical and think a lot on things but I do believe I am being more of a realist than anything. As I said I'm not truly writing off the idea but realizing the truth that it may not be the best thing for me. Neither is too much coffee but I do that sometimes too. Or tobacco which I consume so.. you see what I'm saying