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Originally Posted by healed84
Am I the only one who only wants the relationship that they have right here and now with their T? I mean.. I don't want to give up client/T relationship. I know, that really my T isn't the put together guy he portrays in his office and he makes sure to remind me of that. BUT-I don't want the flaws that come a long with a relationship outside of the safe place of his office. I don't want to change that dynamic. If I can't have him as my T.. I don't want him at all!!!
Anybody else?
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I very much feel the same way. I think my T would probably be an awesome friend, but I'd rather have her as my T. I need her as my T. I love my friends dearly, but I know they have flaws and I know they are not always what I need. Granted, my T is not always able to be what I need either, but as my T, she tries very hard to provide a safe place for me to work through things.