Do not let this SOB into your house!
She might not want to go to the police, but it's imperative that you do.
Otherwise you'll be in danger as well.
Hope you decide to not allow toxic tom (or whatever his name is) into your home.
If you do, nothing good will ever come of it and you, your daughter and the child could all end up DEAD.
Is that what you want?
Domestic Violence is not anything to be ambivalent about ... It's deadlier than a rattlesnake!