There is a statistical norm and there are those who fall outside that norm in ALL areas of life. Now, whether or not those who fall within the norm are normal or not is another question. I know one thing for sure. God made me the way that I am and He loves me the way that I am, but that does not mean that I cannot be better, in many many areas. Perhaps those of us with "disorders" are the ones most blessed because we know we have issues we need to work on. All those normal people out there are just wandering around thinking they are A-OK when we know they are not. I would challenge anyone I know to go through the list of forums here and not find someplace where they would fit in. But, we all have to function in the real world and the bottom line is that some of us have a really, really hard time with that.