When someone lies to me and plays mind games.
When someone talks "over me" or "cuts me off" when I am trying to explain something or just giving my opinion on something. Being the youngest that happened to me "a lot" and my husband did that a lot when he was an active alcoholic and he often does it still.
Being around someone who is always in a "hurry" like my husband who has ADHD, he is always saying "hurry up". I had that growing up too because I was the youngest and smallest and everyone kept saying "hurry up" and I was just smaller and could "not" keep up.
When someone is condescending to me, had to deal with that from my sister all my life really, also my husband tends to be like that too. I hate it because they go on and on and are often "wrong" and then all I hear is, "oh, well, sorry, just get over it".
When I am telling the "truth" about something "important" and people do not "believe me" and are dismissive.
When I ask people to do something a certain way because I don't like to take "chances" and they insist on doing something half fast taking chances that they don't really have to do. Especially when it comes to handling my horses or ponies, things like leading them in and taking off their halter without first making sure the gate is closed to make sure they don't run out and get loose.
That is "really bad" now because even though I took the time on "many" occasions to
explain to my neighbors the danger of them allowing their dogs to run loose they only heard that I didn't want to "see their dog running lose" so they allowed them to run loose while I was sleeping that caused severe damage and even death to my horses and ponies.
Being disrespected when I ask someone "not to do something" and leave the room only to return later and "catch" them doing just what I asked them "not" to do.
Telling people that I do not allow children over a certain weight to ride the pony and they stand there with a child "I know is too big" and insist their child doesn't weigh that much. I now carry a scale with me to combat that. It's sad that I have to stop and "prove them wrong" on many occasions. Like I said, I hate liars.
People who insist on having "extremely loud" motorcycles. It is against the law and yet they seem to "need" to make them obscenely loud and it does scare my ponies.
People who insist on shooting off fireworks that are loud and dangerous and could start a fire even though we have laws prohibiting that. I especially hate it when it is my neighbor who feels "he" is an exception to the law and shoots them off next to my barns risking my barns catching fire.
People who ride their bikes in the middle of the road like they "own the road" and they don't even pull over so I can get by.
People who treat animals like they are just something to "use" to get a ribbon or win or make money without respect or regard for the animal.
Hay dealers who will sell hay even though they know it is moldy or has toxic plants in it that can make any horse or animal that eats it very sick and even cause a horrible death.
People who will sell a pony to a child knowing the pony or even horse is "dangerous", that happens a lot.
People who can "see" abuse, any kind of abuse and choose to "ignore it".
Therapists that have no business being therapists.
People who cut me off in traffic and then slow down.
Anyone who cheats and steals and lies at the expense of others.
Politicians that make promises and never follow through, that play games and back peddle when they are caught, and the people that believe them just because they happen to be the one they voted for.
When I am in any kind of relationship with someone, be it friend or business or what have you and that person does something "wrong" and they turn around and blame me and bad mouth me to others when "they" are the one at fault. I can't say enough how that angers me to the depths of me. Unfortunately that has happened to me a lot in my life and it has not been "little things" it has been some very "big things" where I was left with the damage that was "not my fault and I did not deserve it".
Those are just a few off the top of my head.
OE
Last edited by Open Eyes; Sep 12, 2013 at 05:34 PM.
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