Unfortunately for those who have issues with intimacy, sex and intimacy are a big part of a romantic relationship. Certainly no one is suggesting that anyone should force anyone to do anything. In fact, a partner only doing it out of obligation is a pretty big turn off (for me anyway). But really, when you're in a relationship with someone, sex is kind of what you sign up for. Without that, you have a friendship. Friendships are great... but do not fulfill people's needs for romantic relationships.

If I walk into a restaurant, I expect to be served food. If the restaurant doesn't serve food, I'd leave it. I'm not forcing the restaurant employees to serve me food, but food was kind of one of the biggest factors in why I came in. Sure, there are other great things I like about the restaurant. It has a great atmosphere and the employees are really nice. But without serving food, it just feels kind of pointless for me to be there.