That is good. But my goodness, how nervewracking to be waiting and feeling on edge like this!

I also know that feeling ... him deciding to show up against my wishes and the feeling of fear and dread, waiting for him to appear. Do you and your daughter have a plan?

Does your daughter understand that he is not to come in the house? Also, does she understand that she should not speak with him so he cannot further manipulate her? (HE WILL MOST LIKELY USE THE WHOLE I DROVE 800 MILES HERE TO SEE YOU, POOR ME THING, SO GET READY FOR THAT).

I understand that she loves him, and this is a very complex situation, but hopefully she understands that for as much as you love her (and the baby), this is still your home. And you get to make the rules.

We are here. You will be ok. Just stick to your plan. Do not let him in the house. And be prepared to call 911.