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Old Sep 12, 2013, 08:39 PM
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Originally Posted by IndieVisible View Post
This post will examine how easily people follow. Regardless what diagnoses we are given, patience go home start researching their diagnoses and immediately begin mirroring it, they begin to say "yup that's me totally!" and feel better they at least fit some where and know what's wrong with them.

The reality of this procedure is pdocs do not always agree on each others diagnoses and often are wrong. Also I think so many people want to fit in some where so bad they accept what ever they are told because at least they finally fit some where and know what's wrong with them! Not all of course but certainly most.

So it doesn't matter what you are diagnosed, bipolar, pdsd, bpd, you go home start reading about it and begin identifying and mirroring it. But how can that be?


Well first of all many of the traits and symptoms overlap or exist in other disorder. Many of us can relate to other symptoms and traits as well. The moment we are told that's us, we begin to mirror that even more. I can personally relate to and identify with a number of disorders in various categories. One could easily adapt even further to what they are told they are.
Well what else am I suppose to do when your therapists says you are BPD and it is just fear of abandonment......I go home and researches it because I left his office so confused. He never explained anything.
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