It's not really about my deal-breakers as I really don't have any (I'm not in any position to be picky)...it would be about theirs. I don't want to get emotionally invested in a relationship just to find out if anything I do, say, or am is a deal-breaker.

I also feel the way I look naked will be a deal-breaker, but that's difficult to really talk about (or show really) before having sex and I would really want to get that out of the way as quickly as possible so they can move on and not make fun of the way I look somewhere down the road.

But then, I wouldn't feel comfortable telling someone about all these things...but I also can't get close without them knowing because I don't want to get close if I was just going to be rejected anyway. Might as well get the rejection out of the way early.

I think I got way ahead of myself talking about marriage...I'd be lucky if anyone would ever even go on a date with me, let alone a second date, let alone refer to me as their "girlfriend" (I think it would be incredibly weird to be referred to in such a way anyway), let alone marry me.