If he is making you cry, then he is succeeding. Dont let that happen. So dont cry.

Become determined to become successful in your own life. Become bigger than him. Automatically you will get big guys attracted to you. He will start feeling jealous then. I say you add him on FB! and keep showing him your progress.

Please remember, you will be making a big mistake if you allow yourself to be washed away by the grief and not make any effort to improve yourself. I got flooded and I am repenting now.