I will say that getting drunk to go to parties to meet girls is a big mistake. No girl wants to hook up with someone who is drunk. A lot of relationships start out as friendships, maybe you should develop some of the friendship with girls and go from there. A lot of people fall in love with their best friends. Are you asking any of these girls out? Are you getting turned down? You say you are interesting, nice, funny and that you listen, if all these things are true, then you should be getting dates, if you are asking.