all good advice thanks guys. Yeah I mean, part of the reason is I just don't know where to be doing this. Like in class? I just feel weird doing that. That just sounds so awkward. Maybe in one of my big lecture classes, but in one of my small upper division classes? I couldn't do that. They feel like colleagues to me... It would just seem weird. And I know parties are a bad idea, it's just... as a virgin, the idea of getting drunk and going to a place where there a tons of girls who might want sex, is VERY appealing. But other than that, where? I guess it all has to do with my social circle, and the kinds of outings I go on with them. For one though, going to places alone makes me feel uncomfortable, so I try not to do that. One of my friends from high school told me I should just go up to girls and say hey you're cute, want to go to the movies? That sounds creepy to me! Like just seeing a girl on campus and thinking about approaching her with that question just sounds so desperate and creepy to me. What do you guys think?