Because of my anxiety issues I have such a small number of people around me, that are people who I was able to trust with my information. I used to go to a support group every week so was able to talk about all this stuff on a regular basis. You guys are my support group now. Since my son is getting married the circle is about to expand and I am unsure of whether to disclose. I think the fiance knows so the other mother may already know anyway. And she's very friendly with me so its all good. Well, both the fiance and her mom.