I gave up on using the pill years ago for that reason. Wasn't much fun being able to have spontaneous sex when I had no desire to have sex! I tried a few different types, but had the same problem.

I've used contraceptive film since going off the pill. I will be fifty this month. I still use the film although it seems rather silly at this point. I'm still menstruating, but those eggs gotta be pretty old.

I think there are a lot of women out there whose sex drives are being hijacked by bc pills and they don't know it.