Well, he will either let it go or leave the relationship. Just because he respects her doesn't mean he is obligated to suffer through a sexless relationship. But yes, what he would not do if he respects you is try to force you into it.

Uh... these are all the reasons I went to therapy. Basically I don't know how how have a relationship. What you said about a woman's worth is how I was raised too. I'm sorry you had such a lousy therapist. My current t is a man and he doesn't buy any of this carp. I hope you will try again. This is such a good thread, you really got a good discussion going, and we were able to understand what you really meant, after an initial misunderstanding. Being able to do that, explain things as you did in this part especially, should really serve you well in getting anh help you need. But just being able to express yourself that way - you do know who you are and what you want. You need to meet more people and let them know the treasure you are.