That is absolutely not the case! You are under no obligation to be intimate with anyone from day 1. Not even day 300. That part comes with trust and communication. Everyone goes at their own pace. Honor your own. And dont worry if he cannot respect your pace, that is on him, not you.

And any man that expects you to put out from the start is a jerk. He can be attracted to you, but he is an adult and can control himself.

Honey, not all men are disrespectful jerks. You will learn that as you go along.

It is important to find a good t that you can trust and work on your self esteem. Not all t's are good. Not all good t's are meant to be for us.

Consider going to interviews with different t's to see if you can connect with someone.

I hope you will try. Or at least consider it. It really is worth it.