So I am having an issue with my fiance. Several months ago I was with the father of my children. He wanted sex all the time and I detested him so I didn't and when I would I basically mentally disconnected myself from the situation and could not O from oral. To me oral is a very intimate thing and I somehow blocked it in my mind to be able to have an O. The problem now is I can't seem to allow myself that pleasure. I love my fiance and he tries sooo hard but I can't seem to let go of this mental block that I have. And I can tell it bothers him, he won't say it does but I believe it does. He is amazing and he is nothing like my kid's father I just don't understand why I am not able to just let go and enjoy. Any thoughts?