Ok, "from Day 1" was a blatant exaggeration...sorry...what I meant was sooner rather than later. I know some people are ok with sex on the first date. I'm not. I'm not even ok with kissing on the first date, but I don't know how to communicate that to someone without putting them off. Anyway, I think most people expect something physical to be going on after a few dates or after a couple months of dating. Or something...I don't know what the average expectation is because I've never dated. All I know is that I would need more time than average and I'll feel really bad if I have to make them wait for me which pretty much means he's choosing between cheating on/leaving me or not having sex for unrealistically long time. That isn't fair to them. I honestly don't think I'd be worth waiting for. I don't know what I'm doing and I would be limited to what I could physically do because of joint problems. Plus, I'm only good looking in clothes, not naked...so basically it would be really selfish for me to ever be in a relationship.