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Originally Posted by Rose Panachée
That seemed to take a strange turn ... I agree with pfrog.
Sadly, it appears she fell for his manipulation. But that does not have to be your problem. I know you love your daughter, and the baby on the way, but if she is willing to expose herself to a man like this, it is not your duty to put yourself in harm's way, as well.
Dont let him / them pull you under with them. You have gone above and beyond already.
I hope you will be able to stand your ground and be strong.
Just one more thing...your daughter is also exposing her child to this man. It will not turn out well. People do not change over night.
I am sorry.
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Thank you. It's hard to be a mom to adult children. I really don't have anyone to turn to about this. Seems this whole year has been one issue after another and none that I brought on myself. I am very quiet person, but when I do speak my concerns or forced to deal with things (which I put in my best effort into keeping it positive), I end up being the one everyone gets mad at.
As far as her. Maybe it's her hormones from the pregnancy, but she is telling him she wont see him until he pulls his life together. It's like she knows, but her heart is hurting too. I would say she has entered into a depression now.
She really doesn't know what she wants or what to do. It's all just leading him on because she just isn't ready to call it quits. She is very sad of the thought of the baby not having a daddy. Of course I tell her there are many men who would be happy to take his place and be a great dad. But it will take time to find him. She just isn't ready for that thought.