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Originally Posted by Pfrog
Where does she get off telling you in your home that it's either her or your guy?
Issue her a counter ultimatum ... Either she dumps her boyfriend or out the door she goes!
Shame on her & her toxic tom for bringing all this drama and trauma to your doorstep!
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Thank you! Thank you!
Maybe I am not going about it the right way but, I am trying to deprogram her from when she lived with her father. He was quite damaging to her (us all). He, also a control freak, gave her an ultimatum and she ran towards this loser.
His way didn't work, she left and came back several times with him. Each time it was like rewinding and playing back a bad movie. She finally on her own choose to live with me.
My hope is that if I can give her love and respect that she'll see things differently. I did tell her that her words were hurtful and unfair to me. It wasn't me who she was angry or stressed with. She got better after she thought about it.
My hope is that when this guys fails her again, she'll have had enough. I think she feels like she has to try so she can say she did everything she could.