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Old Sep 13, 2013, 11:07 PM
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Originally Posted by unhappyguy View Post
Well, I am still stuck in the middle. I need to make a decision. I want to avoid meat market-like bars. As an epileptic, I should not drink and there is too much temptation. I have heard that the gay bear community is friendly and may give that a try. Please do not confuse that with the leather community, which is not my scene at all. When it comes to being a bear, I have the body hair part right but am not big enough physically - which has its plusses and minuses. But, I have to make a decision because I am miserable.
I have a relative who is very involved in the bear scene (they organize trips, have parties, and give stuffed bears to the children's hospital every Xmas ). They are nice, friendly guys.