Possibly some need to take small steps to have the strength to return to life outside the net. Please do not judge too harshly for there are many people that have life experiences which have brought them here. Be thankful that they have found such a place as this that they can interact with others and have a haven that is safe for them. The friendships that are made here are as real as those made outside this site. Please take care and appreciate your lifestyle which you seem to enjoy.