It never ceases to amaze me, the amount of BS that spills forward where manipulation is concerned. Basically, Oh, I'll respect your wishes, BUT ONLY if you give me what I want. IN this case, to hear her say she loves, loves, loves him.

What makes men, like this cling too tightly? These are the ones, imo, that are the scariest to deal with. Obsession, is no joke! Restraining orders, in my state, for the anti-harassment clause, involve 3 separate instances. Text messages that are saved and time stamped, work well. Key is, making sure the person is served, especially when they start playing the lack of a stable legal address game.

Clearly, she left him, to get away from him. Sure, she's having a baby, she's not the first single mom, on this planet, I have three. Why is she scared of the restraining order? What about him, tugs at her sympathy card? Is it, the baby? My guilt, was/has been, in trying to show others/please others that I am not that type of mom that denies a father seeing his children. *gasp*. The 'horrors'. When was the last time, my exes visitations have run exactly on schedule to what the divorce contract schedule states? It hasn't! Not through my stopping it, I'll say that!

Know what comes next? If it is just about the kids, with an obsessive type? When she goes to move onto a love interest, the fall out! That's why I went back to court this week, for a restraining order, extension hearing! Which, was granted. That's why, my exh, is facing a criminal trial. When obsessed, they just 'snap'! Dangerous situation, to me in, imo.

Wish your daughter, would just realize, that it's not love, it's addiction!



And gf/gf, woman to woman...really?! the sex can't be 'that great', to stay with the emotional roller coaster! kwim??

Glad, he didn't show!! (another prime example, of actions speak louder than words!)