Tomi, just saying I'm sorry is not going to help - I know that. I don't think your DIL is any kind of mother at all. Regardless of your relationship with her, those are your grandchildren - you have a moral right to see your blood.

To use children or simply ignore their tears is inhuman. I can't stand to see my son in tears - if someone has caused it, I become inhuman and watch out! They are so young to feel this separation anxiety from you.

I'm sorry. Your DIL is a ****** and doesn't deserve to have those children or your help. Throw her down a well to rot and be done with it.

I love you dearly.............hmmmmmm, some saying about people that throw rocks shouldn't live in glass houses.

My thoughts and support will always be with you.

Mary Alice

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