Of course it's that way. Let's assume you where a therapist. You can fit 30 patients a week in your schedule. Who would you prefer to treat? I will be perfectly honest, if I was a therapist I would not want to treat any of the personality disorders. There's that and also let's not forget this..

Let's assume we are lucky enough to find a good therapist who will treat BPD people, GREAT! Now we have to deal with our own issues directed at our therapist. The splitting: my therapist is the greatest in the world! I hate my therapist he doesn't understand any thing! I'm doing great at therapy! I hate myself I and doing terrible at therapy.

And of course we know best, always.. I don't need any meds I can do this on my own!

I never said it was fair. But the deck is stacked against people with personality disorders. There are the real issues and the perceived issues and of course the insurance issues. We deserve the truth no matter how distasteful it may be.