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I've been with him for 7years and he has left me 3years ago when my son was born, since then he has been leaving me at least once a year to the point of moving in with roomates.He has been very much mentally abusive and physically at times which has gotten worst after my son's birth but he is not physical with me anymore apart from holding me down when he's mad.
A month ago he packed his stuff and left me, I do live at my parents house with my son, eversince we worked together he has met co workers that have been brainwashing him into the tipical men mentality.We did everything together in the beginning, he would always cry to me and love me madly and unconditionally we were the bestest friends.But a month ago he told me he's putting his foot down (when he left me again), and has been saying hurtful things to me since then such as ''a woman's only duty is to satisfy her man and do as she is told'' & 'There is plenty of women out there'' & ''No man will put up with your ways'' & ''I honestly couldn't care less about your feelings'' MORE :'(.The old him would have never been so meanhearted and say these things.Well now he is asking me to move out with him, but he has done a 180 on me, he also tells me now that he does not want to spend a lot of time with me because it ''ruins'' relationships suposibly, and that he needs his spaceBut remember before I was his best friend we were always together and I guess I got used to it.I am doubtful to move out with him because he has done such a 180 I just don't see things like he does,yet I am so in love with him it's killing me.Please I need someone to clarify why he might be doing this and what I should do, Thank you.
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Last edited by Wren_; Sep 15, 2013 at 05:59 AM.
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