Safety advice for people with epilepsy | Epilepsy Action
You do have a right to privacy. Is your mom, in counseling? It could help her, cope with the struggles she endured as being the primary caregiver to a child that had this disorder. And they could help her, overcome her fears about you and your future. You are now, a grown woman, and if you want independence, there's no reason to stop you from growing up, in her eyes.