Im trying to figure out the samething. So far when i try to get help i hit dead ends. My kids are teens and my grandaughter is 3. He says if i leave he knows where all my family is and he willbget me hesbdone it before and will do it again. He was in a gang and while hes not active his og's still do for him and find ppl for him ive watched him. Ive seen him do stupid things to get out of a not so difficult situation so i know he will go out of his way to get to me. I feel like a prisoner in my own home. All i want is my freedom. Ive begged him that if he cared a littlenfor me to let me go but he said if i mention divorce again hed bash my face in... Ive called poloce theu say get a rifle cause they cant get here fast enuf i tried filling out a 50b they say if they cant serve it at a different address and he doesnt get it hes not violatig anything and may do more harm tham good. Theres no sfe place for us 5. So i stay and try to tolerate hell but all i want is to leave and survive same as you! I pray for you and your kids please do the same for me we have to make itout safely!