My state the self-defense 'defense' doesn't fly. A woman in your situation would be held accountable to the highest standards of the legal system. Can you obtain something, a little less lethal?
It's scary, isn't it, when they cry 'connections' to 'stalk' and hold 'prisoner'. He's made threatening remarks, which leave you, living in fear. And of course, removing your children, cannot be done, without legal action, no matter what state you reside.
Do you, at least, have a safety plan, in case you are in imminent danger? Stinks, to feel trapped due to bearing children to the wrong man, don't it?
When they are grown, any plans of escape?
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Originally Posted by blkbutterfly76
Im trying to figure out the samething. So far when i try to get help i hit dead ends. My kids are teens and my grandaughter is 3. He says if i leave he knows where all my family is and he willbget me hesbdone it before and will do it again. He was in a gang and while hes not active his og's still do for him and find ppl for him ive watched him. Ive seen him do stupid things to get out of a not so difficult situation so i know he will go out of his way to get to me. I feel like a prisoner in my own home. All i want is my freedom. Ive begged him that if he cared a littlenfor me to let me go but he said if i mention divorce again hed bash my face in... Ive called poloce theu say get a rifle cause they cant get here fast enuf i tried filling out a 50b they say if they cant serve it at a different address and he doesnt get it hes not violatig anything and may do more harm tham good. Theres no sfe place for us 5. So i stay and try to tolerate hell but all i want is to leave and survive same as you! I pray for you and your kids please do the same for me we have to make itout safely!
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