[QUOTE=4D2Long;3270325]The only thing my husband admits to is having attention deficit problems....but there seems to be lots of things going on...at 57.... what kind of help can he get? And who is the health specialist who can he start with...besides his PC, who is not helpful.....

Wow....I cannot believe your post. It's almost like reading about my own husband. Same age, problems. Same frustrations. I knew something was not quite right early on in our marriage. Extreme forgetfulness, sleeping at inappropriate times, and a whole host of other problems. It took me many many years to convince him that there was a problem, the more research I did, I realized that it wasn't just one problem, however A.D.D. was at the heart of his many of his issues. We are still an on going work in progress.