Bonnie, Thanks. I will absolutely say that what you said is condescending, rude, hugely unhelpful, barely even relative to my original post, and I expected better from someone on a supportive, understanding site like this. Nowadays I don't usually bother replying online with how I really feel, but what you said hit a nerve. As it so happens, my presumptuous poster, I have been in the process of sorting various things out, which, if you had read my post properly, you'd have realised. I'm so very pleased that your life is wonderful, and I'm sure it took a tremendous amount of effort to get to that amazing state of well-being, but that is your life, not everyone else's, so kindly consider this in the future, lest you hurt someone more vulnerable than I.

AceHaven, thank you for your reply; it made me feel a bit less like crap.