awww I'm sorry. i totally understand I would feel completely betrayed and violated! That is wrong, wrong, wrong. You have every right to be angry but the truth is you don't deserve the anger on yourself but he does. he was a fckwit and I know you probably can't get yourself to right now but he deserves every bit of a chewing up one side and down the other if you ask me.

I am a relatively private person too.. Unless I give the information out, or tell you it's ok it's NOT!

My goes out to you.