I would have done option 1 or 2. But the other option some one lese brought up isn't bad, but I would modify it a bit to.. "don't talk to me like I'm your focking wife, get out of my office and don't come back until you can talk to me normally"

I think some thing like that would reach him better then a calm approach. Just my 2 cents.

We have Paulies every where. Spoiled rotten little kids in adult bodies.