Yes im planning one i just have to be careful. I cant tip him off in any way... I keep a bag packed but i always have because i used to work weekends he doesnt think much of that because he just thinks its a weekend work bag type thing..i have a bag with important documents all packed up just sittig in the corner ...as for how tough i am im fairly tough but i have fibromyalgia so some days my jewelry hurts meso i can go from xena warrior princess to having as much strength as a wet noodle in 30 minutes ... He knows this...i spoke with a man explaining my situation who is willing to train me for a discounted price but hard to do when hes always around... I have evidence to be granted a divorce i jist dont have anything to keep me safe!