Since you are 23, might your parents be trying to lead you toward independence. Many young adults spend some time after school or internships at their parent's homes. At this point, there should be clear expectations by both parties. The parents may provide room and board on a no or low cost basis while the young adult develops a plan for moving from the parential home within a certain lenght of timr.

I believe that some of the actions by your parents are trying to teach you to get to the goals you wish to meet, including stable employment of some time amd leading to a place of your own way.