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Originally Posted by Nobodyandnothing
Since you are 23, might your parents be trying to lead you toward independence. Many young adults spend some time after school or internships at their parent's homes. At this point, there should be clear expectations by both parties. The parents may provide room and board on a no or low cost basis while the young adult develops a plan for moving from the parential home within a certain lenght of timr.
I believe that some of the actions by your parents are trying to teach you to get to the goals you wish to meet, including stable employment of some time amd leading to a place of your own way.
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Nah, they really aren't. This is the first time in four years I haven't had a full time job or have been in school full time. When I was working, I paid for everything I needed and gave money, etc. It's been August of last year that I haven't been able to move. That and I am a primary caregiver to the both of them. And I can't leave my 17 year old sister to do that on top of school + college applications and meetings.
I think the issue is much deeper than that. It's been like this since I was 14. My brother came first, I came second, and in my dads eyes, I come in third. Still.
My parents know, and have seen, that I am able to live on my own. But right now with the pain, Being on my own would be unwise. I do not drive much due to my PTSD. And sometimes I cannot get up and down the stairs or out of bed alone. My doctors agree that it would be illogical to move out again right now, even if I have the funds. Physically, I need someone to help me do simple things. It makes me feel pathetic.
I wish I could live alone. I just can't right now.