breemarie, i am so sorry that your family has caused you this much pain. families are good at that. BFs can also be jerks when you need support.....

i am appalled that the hospital acted as they did when your mother died. there is no excuse for that. none whatsoever. protocol wasn't followed, obviously. you have the right to feel angry about their lack of professionalism. they may have been having an "off" day, BUT there is a strict protocol that is to be followed concerning patients and they didn't do it with your mom.....

i hope that things ease up for you and that you can get some closure and relief from the pain of losing your mother.......love, pat